almost by law too.
that him and i are finally done for good.
that him and i are finally done for good.
reading my last entry i feel like one of those pathetic girls for even trying to stay and make it work, after he hit me.
there is no excuse why he hit me, but if you wanna hear it here it is.
i can't even recall why we were fighting but we were.
and he was telling me what a whore i am, i'm such a slut and he knows it, i just want other dicks, i've probably had them, etc.
so i socked him in his mouth for him saying those things to me.
then i got in his face screaming and he hit me.
that moment felt so surreal. i didn't want to believe it.
but he did it, and ever since that moment i lost all respect for him and i didn't care to work things out.
how is a woman to defend herself against such verbal abuse?
so i used the only way i knew how.
he moved out that day, and got drunk and high off of tweak with his family and friends during Christmas Eve and Christmas day.
MISSING our daughters first Christmas.
those two days were the worst days of my life, watching everyone in my family being a family while i sat alone unwrapping presents with my daughter.
nothing hurt more to me.
special moments in your daughters life and you can care less.
that i can say honestly murdered me in every emotional sense possible.
i'm glad Eve is unaware to whats going on at her age otherwise she'd be one corrupted child.
or shall i say hurt.
living together in our condo was great at time, or moments.
never days at a time were things good.
Leo lost his job and didn't really care to look for another.
i can't even recall why we were fighting but we were.
and he was telling me what a whore i am, i'm such a slut and he knows it, i just want other dicks, i've probably had them, etc.
so i socked him in his mouth for him saying those things to me.
then i got in his face screaming and he hit me.
that moment felt so surreal. i didn't want to believe it.
but he did it, and ever since that moment i lost all respect for him and i didn't care to work things out.
how is a woman to defend herself against such verbal abuse?
so i used the only way i knew how.
he moved out that day, and got drunk and high off of tweak with his family and friends during Christmas Eve and Christmas day.
MISSING our daughters first Christmas.
those two days were the worst days of my life, watching everyone in my family being a family while i sat alone unwrapping presents with my daughter.
nothing hurt more to me.
special moments in your daughters life and you can care less.
that i can say honestly murdered me in every emotional sense possible.
i'm glad Eve is unaware to whats going on at her age otherwise she'd be one corrupted child.
or shall i say hurt.
living together in our condo was great at time, or moments.
never days at a time were things good.
Leo lost his job and didn't really care to look for another.
we struggled on a daily basis, and he made what he could on the streets.
but what was that going to do?
and the emotional abuse, i went through it every single day.
tear after tear, fight after fight.
he could care less, and he would leave nights at a time and come home the next morning drunk, high, or on tweak.
he started doing that a lot.
we shared cell phones and he broke them all, so i finally go my own and i guard it with my life.
the abuse never stopped, and it was an everyday thing, it was a routine we'd always make up.
until one day, i was diagnosed with strep throat and tonsillitis, i was really really sick.
and i had a WIC appointment, and his name was on the card so i asked him to go for me while i took care of Eve and rested at home.
my appointment was at 9, and it was literally right across the street LITERALLY.
so he left at 8:30.
i called him about 9:30 to see how it went, he was at his friends house getting high.
supposedly he swears he went and he said it was closed.
i know he was lying because i called and it opens at 8 o'clock sharp.
so i called my mom crying, and she told me to reschedule and she would take me.
i kept calling him to tell him to try and go and he would tell me he was on his way, then i'd call about 15 min. later and he was still getting high with his friends.
once he showed me how much he could care less about helping our daughter get what she needs.
my heart was completely done.
just done, no questions asked, just done.
he could hurt me continuously and i would take him back and be find with it.
but what was that going to do?
and the emotional abuse, i went through it every single day.
tear after tear, fight after fight.
he could care less, and he would leave nights at a time and come home the next morning drunk, high, or on tweak.
he started doing that a lot.
we shared cell phones and he broke them all, so i finally go my own and i guard it with my life.
the abuse never stopped, and it was an everyday thing, it was a routine we'd always make up.
until one day, i was diagnosed with strep throat and tonsillitis, i was really really sick.
and i had a WIC appointment, and his name was on the card so i asked him to go for me while i took care of Eve and rested at home.
my appointment was at 9, and it was literally right across the street LITERALLY.
so he left at 8:30.
i called him about 9:30 to see how it went, he was at his friends house getting high.
supposedly he swears he went and he said it was closed.
i know he was lying because i called and it opens at 8 o'clock sharp.
so i called my mom crying, and she told me to reschedule and she would take me.
i kept calling him to tell him to try and go and he would tell me he was on his way, then i'd call about 15 min. later and he was still getting high with his friends.
once he showed me how much he could care less about helping our daughter get what she needs.
my heart was completely done.
just done, no questions asked, just done.
he could hurt me continuously and i would take him back and be find with it.
but once his carelessness started to pertain to our daughter, HELL NO.
i was not gonna let that happen.
this was effecting getting her formula, her everyday food.
so i was just done.
i called him and finally at 11:30 he said he would go.
i told him no, come home pack your little things here and leave i'm done.
ever since i've been staying with my parents and him with his.
and i have no desire to make it work nor get back with him.
this was effecting getting her formula, her everyday food.
so i was just done.
i called him and finally at 11:30 he said he would go.
i told him no, come home pack your little things here and leave i'm done.
ever since i've been staying with my parents and him with his.
and i have no desire to make it work nor get back with him.
he believes i have someone else when i don't.
i remember what i'm worth now, and it feels amazing.
i've been so unhappy for so long, but i'm back my hapiness is back.
ever since i left him, i have no stress, no drama, and no tears.
my life feels so much better.
he still tries every single day to call me and convince me to get back with him.
but no words in the world will every bring me back to him.
and i've never felt so happy and free.
ever since i left him, my life has been great.
God is taking care of me and blessing me every single day.
with things i don't even ask for or expect.
i'm assuming for once it's because i'm doing according to his plan.
and it's just not to be with Leo anymore.
i remember what i'm worth now, and it feels amazing.
i've been so unhappy for so long, but i'm back my hapiness is back.
ever since i left him, i have no stress, no drama, and no tears.
my life feels so much better.
he still tries every single day to call me and convince me to get back with him.
but no words in the world will every bring me back to him.
and i've never felt so happy and free.
ever since i left him, my life has been great.
God is taking care of me and blessing me every single day.
with things i don't even ask for or expect.
i'm assuming for once it's because i'm doing according to his plan.
and it's just not to be with Leo anymore.
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